This guest post is by Zimako Ezechukwu who was accepted into California State University, Northridge. Zimako is applying for the Spring 2026 Making a Difference Autism Scholarship via the nonprofit KFM Making a Difference started by me, Kerry Magro. I was nonspeaking till 2.5 and diagnosed with autism at 4 and you can read more about my organization here.
Autistics on Autism the Next Chapter: Stories You Need to Hear About What Helped Them While Growing Up and Pursuing Their Dreams was released on Amazon on 3/25/25 and looks at the lives over 75 Autistic adults. 100% of the proceeds from this book will go back to supporting our nonprofits many initiatives, like this scholarship program. Check out the book here. Would you like me to travel to speak with your school or company on autism and inclusion? You can contact me here for more details.
I was diagnosed with autism at the age of three because I didn’t respond to people the way other children did. Growing up, I often struggled with thinking things through the way others expected me to.
In elementary school, my autism became more noticeable. I sometimes lacked critical thinking skills, and I often heard phrases like “think” or “use your brain.” Even though people may not have meant harm, those words felt frustrating and degrading because I truly was trying my best. I often found myself sitting alone on field trips or playing by myself at recess. Because of that, whenever someone invited me to join them, I always appreciated the opportunity.
Speech therapy helped me grow tremendously. I may not remember every detail, but I remember the games, activities, and the encouragement from my teacher. It helped me learn how to respond in different social situations and build confidence in myself.
Before middle school, I attended a summer program at Los Angeles Southwest College. That experience was important for me. The coordinator, Mr. Cosby, encouraged students to step outside their comfort zones and prepare for college. Being part of that program helped me become more confident and ask questions without fear. I am grateful for the eight years I spent in that program and the support I received.
Middle school was challenging. The environment felt overwhelming at times. I made friends with students who were energetic and outgoing. While I did not approve of everything they did, they made me feel included. They invited me to dance, laugh, and be part of something. That sense of belonging meant a lot to me.
When schools closed in 2020, everything shifted online. Like many students, I felt overwhelmed. I was placed in a transition course that focused on preparing us for adulthood. We watched videos, completed activities, and had weekly check-ins. It was stressful, but I managed to pass my classes with solid grades.
When school reopened, I had to readjust to routines and in-person learning. Because many people knew my older sister, I had to build my own identity and friendships. I eventually opened up about my autism in art class, and surprisingly, that honesty helped people connect with me more.
Today, I am attending California State University, Northridge, majoring in Animation, with an expected graduation between 2027 and 2028.
College can be overwhelming, but it is also exciting and meaningful. I am learning how to shape my creativity into something that can inspire others.
My autism has become a blessing. It shaped me into an easygoing person with a strong heart and a unique personality. While some people use the word “special” negatively, I embrace it. My autism is part of me, and I would not remove it even if I could.
Everyone has something that makes them different, whether it is a condition, a talent, or a perspective. No one deserves to be mistreated for those differences.
No matter how much I grow or improve, I will always have my autism. And I have decided that I am proud to keep it.
Kerry Magro, a professional speaker and best-selling author who is also on the autism spectrum started the nonprofit KFM Making a Difference in 2011 to help students with autism receive scholarship aid to pursue a post-secondary education. Help us continue to help students with autism go to college by making a tax-deductible donation to our nonprofit here.
Kerry Magro, a professional speaker and best-selling author who is also on the autism spectrum, founded the nonprofit KFM Making a Difference in 2011 to help students with autism receive scholarship support to pursue post-secondary education. You can help us continue supporting autistic students by making a tax-deductible donation to our nonprofit here.
You can also consider having Kerry speak at your next event by submitting an inquiry here. Kerry speaks with schools, businesses, government agencies, colleges, nonprofits, parent groups, and conferences on topics including autism, employment, college success, mental health, inclusion, and bullying prevention.
