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REACHING MY GOALS BY BEING DIFFERENT

This guest post is by Sekoiya Anthony, a young woman on the autism spectrum who aspires to attend Shepherds College. Ryan is applying for the Spring 2025 Making a Difference Autism Scholarship via the nonprofit KFM Making a Difference started by me, Kerry Magro. I was nonverbal till 2.5 and diagnosed with autism at 4 and you can read more about my organization here.

Autistics on Autism the Next Chapter: Stories You Need to Hear About What Helped Them While Growing Up and Pursuing Their Dreams will be released on Amazon on 3/25/25 and looks at the lives over 75 Autistic adults. 100% of the proceeds from this book will go back to supporting our nonprofits many initiatives, like this scholarship program. Check out the book here.

My name is Ryan Mandekic and I attend Derry Area High School. I lived in Derry, PA for most of my life. When I was in Kindergarten and 1st grade I used to go to Blairsville Elementary School in Blairsville, PA. In Kindergarten, I had trouble learning academics and struggled due to lack of support. I had trouble interacting with teachers, peers, behavioral problems, anxiety and communicating, which led me to fail 1st grade. I got transferred to Grandview Elementary at Derry Area School District to repeat 1st grade. I built relationships with new friends and teachers, which helped me grow. I improved my academics and received support from the learning support teacher. I had a PCA, TSS, and BSC at Derry Elementary School, where they helped me at home and in the community. In 4th grade, I joined Band Class and played the trombone, I still play today. Through Middle School and High School, I struggled with transitions and anxiety. In 11th grade, I took electives that interested me and spent time with peers. I had a counselor that helped me improve at communicating and have better coping skills. I went to Vo-Tech to learn Automotive Technology for a semester, however, this year I decided to leave Vo-Tech and continue to focus on my academics. This year I did my second High School Musical. I played on the High School Bocce Team. I went to the Prom with my friends. Currently, I am repeating my 12th grade year to get caught up on my academics. Also, I needed more time to decide what I wanted to do after high school. I am continuing last year’s school activities through this year. I have less anxiety and problems at school. At home, I like to do mechanical work on small engines, play board games, make drawings and write stories. I like to watch tv, listen to music and relax. I argue when I am upset, stressed and perseverating. I had trouble with this at home and in the community. I have found ways to cope and communicate better with other people. I can manage my stress and anxiety better. I enjoy swimming, bike riding, walking my dogs, and spending time with my family and friends. I like mechanical work, such as small engine repair and automotive repair. Growing up, I always wanted to fix and repair mechanical things. Over the years, I have learned a lot about automotive and small engine repair. I have helped my Dad fix and diagnose mechanical issues. I helped him fix the cars. I have learned how to take apart, rebuild and maintain small gas engines. I have learned how to replace broken or worn parts when rebuilding a small engine. Currently, I am interested in Plumbing and HVAC. I am interested in learning these trades at Westmoreland County Community College. I like these careers because I had experience in learning how to repair household plumbing growing up. When I was 9 years old, my Dad showed me how to replace a household toilet and how the valve and float goes inside the tank of the toilet. I helped replace the flap inside the toilet. A year later I learned how to replace rubber washers on the bathroom sink and laundry tub. When I was at Vo-Tech I had shadowed a class for Plumbing and HVAC. Recently, I helped my Dad fix a leaking water pipe and I learned how to cut, solder and replace the pipe with a new one. I learned from my Dad how to fix and maintain a gas furnace for heating. I helped him replace the gas valve on our furnace this year and in the past. I hope to have a career in Plumbing and HVAC to become a productive member of society.

Kerry Magro, a professional speaker and best-selling author who is also on the autism spectrum started the nonprofit KFM Making a Difference in 2011 to help students with autism receive scholarship aid to pursue a post-secondary education. Help us continue to help students with autism go to college by making a tax-deductible donation to our nonprofit here.

Also, consider having Kerry, one of the only professionally accredited speakers on the spectrum in the country, speak at your next event by sending him an inquiry here. If you have a referral for someone who many want him to speak please reach out as well! Kerry speaks with schools, businesses, government agencies, colleges, nonprofit organizations, parent groups and other special events on topics ranging from employment, how to succeed in college with a learning disability, internal communication, living with autism, bullying prevention, social media best practices, innovation, presentation best practices and much more!

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